When we are born into the family of God we enter into His rest, His love, His Power, His Will. God says, "You are under my control, my care and I will teach you how to live a victorious life on earth. I have empowered you with my Spirit which guide you, strengthen and comfort you; and I uphold you in with my right hand and I will bless your gong in and coming out."
Don't waste time counting the things which you consider loss because you are wining no matter the cost. God has already laid out the cards on the table and it's always a winning hand. You need not add to it or omit anything. While you're still trying to play God is has already won it for you. If God gives you some cards to play, you play exactly how he has taught you. Play by His rules for they will bring you victory. You're in it to win it when God is in it!